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By surfs_Up/tacitus: Good looking vs looking good

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Another reminder of how related the senses are. My job allows me to dress as I see fit, usually loose and not concerned with being noticed. That's the way I like to be, invisible and off the radar screen. When it comes time to switch into connection mode I have some full custom sports coats that look expensive as hell because they were expensive as hell. No off the rack men's clothing radiates the same desirability quotient by a mile. I have a hard time believing the difference in reaction just walking down the street. Women can tell the difference a long way off. The entire reaction set is completely different. They check it out, they check me out, they check it out again, they walk a little switchy, try a eye contact quicky, normally they won't try for eye contact with a bummy looking guy. Bummy looking guys look dependent, like freeloaders waiting to happen or chronic incompetents that can't count their change.

You get a lot more milage from your pheromonal bag of tricks once you learn how to dress right. Most people don't. They look overdressed, underdressed, out of place, or clueless. Young bucks want to get some play ? Find yourself a real tailor who knows the art of hand making fine men's clothing and invest in a fine woolen navy blue blazer. Expensive, yes, but about 1/10 the amount you'll spend on a half assed car.

Hint to you guys. When you have a nice, sexual, perfectly fitted blazer on you can wear jeans from the Gap and nobody will life an eye.Now put on your cherished pheros and see what happens.

Hope she doesn't crash and burn when she sees your place though..... LOL... major bachelor problem, now you've got her, she wants to check out your domestic materiality, be prepared for not so subtle hints, "oh do you OWN this place or are you renting" ?Nother useful thing or two.

Buy a great fragrance. Creed makes about the best on the market. Please, don't spreay it on full strength, you'll smell like a gigolo. Women like expensive but they like subtle. Take a small bottle of alcohol and spray a few squirts of Creed Himalaya into it, So you only somewhat notice it. Annoint you body thusly than add what pheros you think are needed.

Then, learn this one well, if you connect, know how to give her your undivided attention for extended periods of time. That really makes 'em hot. It takes stamina too. Hint: there's a massive difference between giving someone your total focus and letching. Being a letch will get you rejected.

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