Many of my coaching clients ask me how to "allow"things to happen.
There is a fine line between desiring what we wantand then being detached from it manifesting.
Being detached from something doesn't mean you don't careor that you don't want it.
It just means that you don't NEED to have it in orderto be happy. When you come from a place of NEEDING somethingyou are coming from a place of lack. You are telling theuniverse that you are missing out on something and youcan't be happy until that is fulfilled.
The vibration you are sending out is lack and thatis precisely what you will receive back from the universe.Ask yourself this question, "Do I need this to happen,or do I prefer that this happens?"
When you come from a place of preferring somethingyou are then detached. You would absolutely love it tohappen, but you won't get upset if it doesn't becauseyour happiness and fulfillment doesn't depend on it.
When I desired to have my ideal partner, I was VERY clearthat he would come into my life. I had no idea when orhow it would happen. I didn't feel that I needed a manto make me happy. I remember saying "I don't need a man.I prefer to have a man." I was emotionally detachedfrom the outcome. I created the space for the universeto bring Frederic into my life in a very magical way.I still don't NEED him. I prefer him in my life.
I realize that my joy is within me. His joy is within him.But when we come together . . . our joy is multiplied.
Detachment is allowing. Allowing the timing, the form,and the how to be the work of the universe.
Just enjoy your life. That is your job.
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