Getting through with style
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There are those people who are remarkably skillful at geting through life, so I have to think that "success" with others is a large skill set... it is a wise idea to avoid fragmentation and comparmentalizing... as if to think there is a specific box filled with love skills.... thats mostly a load of marketing BS that has next to nothing to do with real life... like you may find yourself in social groups, meetings on one hand, parties with a business edge to them, hanging out and shooting the breeze, sometimes small clusters of men brushing up against small clusters of women... and there's a hell of a lot of signaling on three levels, the top level are the overt, obvious, intentional signals, (in intention-speak, what "you mean to mean"), then there is a middle level, sometimes referred to a liminal communication which is that slippery communication that is semi-conscious but still has some conscious intentionality to it, the meaningful looks, the subtexts, the double entendres, and then there is also a rich world of fully unconscious communication, this is closely related to recurring life patterns, "why does this ALWAYS happen to me ?", things we identify as fate or patterns of events that occur around one person and not another... which I think is also connected to shamanism, sorcery, divination practices, and sometimes revealed through the use of pyschedelic materials that may cause a sudden sharp awareness of the third layer... the sad fact is that our culture has massive surface fixes and almost no resources available to deal with the third level self, where so much of the action is.
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