From How to be a Alpha Male By John Alexander
Interested
1. She compliments you on just about anything.
2. She feels nervous around you. Look for signs of nervousness such as her
muscles twitching.
3. She teases you playfully.
4. She makes an effort to tell you how much she loves the same things you like.
5. She talks about things that you guys can do in the future. “You like vintage clothing stores too?” she might say, “We should go sometime!” By the way, this is also something you should talk about with girls. Don’t make it too serious though. Make it like you’re being playful. “We could go shopping for the most pimp looking purple tights on 5th Avenue!” (Say anything playfully absurd that the two of you could do in the future. Keep it non-sexual of course.)
6. When her legs are crossed, look at the foot of her top leg. If it is pointed toward you, it is a sign she feels attraction.
7. She makes an effort to keep the conversation going when it lulls. (Every once in awhile you can even test her attraction by purposely allowing the conversation to pause on your end. Then see if she restarts the conversation.)
8. She touches her face. When a person touches his or her face, it’s a sign that they’re thinking about something. So in order to be sure that she’s thinking good thoughts, look for this signal to be combined with others from this list.
9. She gazes into your eyes and holds the gaze.
10. She mirrors you. Watch to see whether she
• Has a similar posture to yours.
• Adjusts the volume of her voice to match yours.
• Adjusts the rate of her voice to match yours.
• Matches the pace of your breathing.
• Laughs when you laugh.
11. Stroking a cylindrical object such as a wine glass or pen up and down with her thumb and pointer finger. This means you’re having a strong effect on her, big guy!
12. She tosses her head back or side-to-side. Watch for her hair to sway from side to side.
13. She touches her face while looking at you.
14. She dangles her shoe off her foot or even takes it off.
15. She rubs her fingertips around her upper chest.
16. She rubs her palm on the back of her head, causing her hair to fluff out.
17. She plays with her hair while looking at you.
18. She displays a genuine smile rather than one that’s forced.
19. Her eyes sparkle because her pupils are big and dilated.
20. She raises her eyebrows at times.
21. Her nipples are hardening. Of course, you can only tell this if she’s wearing the right clothes.
22. She has a relaxed face. (However, sometimes a non-relaxed fact can be okay, such as when a woman is so attracted to you that she feels nervous.)
23. She gazes into your eyes. Her pupils dilate (enlarge).
24. She focuses all her attention on you, even when there are other people around.
25. She touches you while talking to you, even if it is “accidental.” Women are highly conscious of their bodies, so it will rarely really be an accident when they touch you. Look for her to touch your arm to emphasize a point or brush her foot against yours when she laughs at one of your witty statements.
26. She laughs at your comments as if they’re the funniest things she’s ever heard, even if they’re only mildly witty.
27. She shows her tongue, like when when she touches it to her front teeth or licks her lips.
28. With her body turned towards you, she suddenly sits upright, with her arm muscles tensed and her breasts pushed out.
29. She displays her palms to you. This indicates she feels open with you.
30. She rubs her wrists or plays with her bracelet.
31. Her skin becomes flushed. Look particularly to notice whether she blushes. (This can also be a signal that she feels horny.)
32. She rubs her earlobes or plays with her earrings.
33. She asks you questions about yourself. They won’t just be the superficial questions that she’d ask anyone (“Where are you from?”), but instead will be deeper questions to find out what makes you tick (e.g., “What are you passions in life?”)
34. She’s energetic about talking with you.
Not Interested
1. A limp hand.
2. She looks away from you, especially when you’re talking to her.
3. Making little effort to talk with you. Giving one-word answers.
4. Folding her arms across her chest.
5. Crossing her legs at the ankles.
6. Continually scratching her nose. When a person feels uncomfortable, blood rushes to their nose, causing it to itch.
7. When you turn your body language toward her, she leans back and away from you.
8. She seems unenergetic about talking with you.
9. She’ll have a neutral tone of voice.
Interested
1. She compliments you on just about anything.
2. She feels nervous around you. Look for signs of nervousness such as her
muscles twitching.
3. She teases you playfully.
4. She makes an effort to tell you how much she loves the same things you like.
5. She talks about things that you guys can do in the future. “You like vintage clothing stores too?” she might say, “We should go sometime!” By the way, this is also something you should talk about with girls. Don’t make it too serious though. Make it like you’re being playful. “We could go shopping for the most pimp looking purple tights on 5th Avenue!” (Say anything playfully absurd that the two of you could do in the future. Keep it non-sexual of course.)
6. When her legs are crossed, look at the foot of her top leg. If it is pointed toward you, it is a sign she feels attraction.
7. She makes an effort to keep the conversation going when it lulls. (Every once in awhile you can even test her attraction by purposely allowing the conversation to pause on your end. Then see if she restarts the conversation.)
8. She touches her face. When a person touches his or her face, it’s a sign that they’re thinking about something. So in order to be sure that she’s thinking good thoughts, look for this signal to be combined with others from this list.
9. She gazes into your eyes and holds the gaze.
10. She mirrors you. Watch to see whether she
• Has a similar posture to yours.
• Adjusts the volume of her voice to match yours.
• Adjusts the rate of her voice to match yours.
• Matches the pace of your breathing.
• Laughs when you laugh.
11. Stroking a cylindrical object such as a wine glass or pen up and down with her thumb and pointer finger. This means you’re having a strong effect on her, big guy!
12. She tosses her head back or side-to-side. Watch for her hair to sway from side to side.
13. She touches her face while looking at you.
14. She dangles her shoe off her foot or even takes it off.
15. She rubs her fingertips around her upper chest.
16. She rubs her palm on the back of her head, causing her hair to fluff out.
17. She plays with her hair while looking at you.
18. She displays a genuine smile rather than one that’s forced.
19. Her eyes sparkle because her pupils are big and dilated.
20. She raises her eyebrows at times.
21. Her nipples are hardening. Of course, you can only tell this if she’s wearing the right clothes.
22. She has a relaxed face. (However, sometimes a non-relaxed fact can be okay, such as when a woman is so attracted to you that she feels nervous.)
23. She gazes into your eyes. Her pupils dilate (enlarge).
24. She focuses all her attention on you, even when there are other people around.
25. She touches you while talking to you, even if it is “accidental.” Women are highly conscious of their bodies, so it will rarely really be an accident when they touch you. Look for her to touch your arm to emphasize a point or brush her foot against yours when she laughs at one of your witty statements.
26. She laughs at your comments as if they’re the funniest things she’s ever heard, even if they’re only mildly witty.
27. She shows her tongue, like when when she touches it to her front teeth or licks her lips.
28. With her body turned towards you, she suddenly sits upright, with her arm muscles tensed and her breasts pushed out.
29. She displays her palms to you. This indicates she feels open with you.
30. She rubs her wrists or plays with her bracelet.
31. Her skin becomes flushed. Look particularly to notice whether she blushes. (This can also be a signal that she feels horny.)
32. She rubs her earlobes or plays with her earrings.
33. She asks you questions about yourself. They won’t just be the superficial questions that she’d ask anyone (“Where are you from?”), but instead will be deeper questions to find out what makes you tick (e.g., “What are you passions in life?”)
34. She’s energetic about talking with you.
Not Interested
1. A limp hand.
2. She looks away from you, especially when you’re talking to her.
3. Making little effort to talk with you. Giving one-word answers.
4. Folding her arms across her chest.
5. Crossing her legs at the ankles.
6. Continually scratching her nose. When a person feels uncomfortable, blood rushes to their nose, causing it to itch.
7. When you turn your body language toward her, she leans back and away from you.
8. She seems unenergetic about talking with you.
9. She’ll have a neutral tone of voice.
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