Post by Gegogi at l-s
I don't think I can explain it too well, but it's sort of a lifestyle thing. You need to appear secure, established and well invested in your life's work. That is, you need to show you have a supreme purpose other than getting in her pants. Just don't make the mistake of bragging or name dropping. Let it unfold naturally. So the confidence in who you are and what you do is evident but isn't manifest in the player role.
Women like a worldly, self-assured guy with professional direction. If you look like you have a future, they will imagine a future with you. However, your attention to meeting and picking up women must appear less directed and somewhat innocent so you don't come off as a player. It helps to be friendly but mildly aloof. You don't want to appear too interested, so keep the level mild (but not so low they think you're impossible or totally disinterested). If you pursue too hard you come off as a needy horndog. Women are attracted to mystery and challenge, so if you bait them rather than overwhelm them with aggression, they'll often seek you out.
I don't think I can explain it too well, but it's sort of a lifestyle thing. You need to appear secure, established and well invested in your life's work. That is, you need to show you have a supreme purpose other than getting in her pants. Just don't make the mistake of bragging or name dropping. Let it unfold naturally. So the confidence in who you are and what you do is evident but isn't manifest in the player role.
Women like a worldly, self-assured guy with professional direction. If you look like you have a future, they will imagine a future with you. However, your attention to meeting and picking up women must appear less directed and somewhat innocent so you don't come off as a player. It helps to be friendly but mildly aloof. You don't want to appear too interested, so keep the level mild (but not so low they think you're impossible or totally disinterested). If you pursue too hard you come off as a needy horndog. Women are attracted to mystery and challenge, so if you bait them rather than overwhelm them with aggression, they'll often seek you out.
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